Sunday, July 5, 2009

NOTHING IS AS IT SEEMS

Like every0ne else, i'm passing thr0ugh life as carefully as i can, watching my steps as i g0. However, there are times when we f0rget that n0t everything is as it seems t0 be. You see y0ur b0yfriend 0r girlfriend every 0ther day. You watch y0ur y0unger siblings play and s0metimes y0u j0in them. And as usual, y0u hear elders nagging y0u. Strange as it may s0und, there will be time when y0u will c0me t0 wish y0u c0uld hear it all 0ver again, watch the kids play s0mem0re 0r even listen t0 th0se sweet n0things fr0m y0ur l0ver. But theres n0 turning back t0 time. I have l0st my dear 0nes al0ng the way. The realisati0n that they w0uld n0t be ar0und f0r my birthday 0r when I g0t my real driving license 0r even t0 pr0udly see me graduate is painful t0 accept. I have seen cl0se friends walk in and 0ut 0f my life, leaving a wh0le mark in my heart. i have learnt that everything is n0t as it seems t0 be.
0n the surface, everything maybe perfect but y0u never quite grasp h0w perfect it is until y0u get t0 the nitty gritty 0f the situati0n. Breaking up, making upand then breaking up again. I had a bestfriend, but as time went by, s0 did my best friend, he & she f0und s0me0ne better. I never realised that I was n0t g0od en0ugh. Nothing is ever what it seems t0 be. With every passing day, I tell myself that i have t0 let pe0ple i care f0r and l0ve kn0w h0w i feel ab0ut them. Be it my br0ther, m0ther, sister, father 0r my friends. Letting them kn0w that they are l0ved is imp0rtant. and yet there are times when I have failed t0 d0 s0and the regret is s0o great. Never assume that th0se wh0 are dear t0 y0u kn0w that y0u l0ve them. S0metimes, a little reminder can make a huge difference in 0ne's life. It 0nly takes a c0uple 0f minutes t0 express y0ur feelings but it will carry y0ur l0ved 0nes a mile thr0ugh life. We hear this s0 0ften but trust me, y0u may never kn0w if there is a t0m0rr0w f0r this pers0n and sh0uld y0u miss the 0ppurtunity, the regret is s0o great.
What w0uld be better; t0 say th0se simple w0rds that brings great meaning 0t t0 h0ld 0nt0 w0rds and regret it f0r a lifetime. Regret never brings any benefit- 0nly pain and s0rr0w. So, why wait when y0u can say it n0w? why p0stp0ne till t0m0rr0w? What can y0u 0u d0 t0day? Why wait when y0u kn0w that time waits f0r n0 man?? Why wait at all?

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