TRUE LOVE

In most cases we think: this is true love when in fact it's not. But then, if this is not love, then what is it? There are plenty of things that we are confused when it comes to love.

It could be just the basic instinct. The feelings can be passionate and crazy, but in fact both people may want only companionship. And after all the misunderstanding starts, and once infatuated lovers will find out that they have nothing in common and sometimes they dont even know what to talk to each other.

Another variant is when people lack support, care and attention to their person or they are just scared to stay single. Being with someone can be a habit when one simply got used to the other. People call this type of relationship love just by mistake or trying to conceal the true nature of it.

But than, you may start to wonder what does true love look and feel like? "(beats me) Maybe its when 2 people seem to know each other for ages and even in their instinct. They can go on talking and talking and conversation never lacks topics and never gets dull. Or people dont have to say anything because they understand each other without words. And those moments, minutes and even hours of silence are never uncomfortable. True love is when partners complement one another, when they are together, it's peaceful, the whole world with it's suffering problems doesnt exist and nothing even matters.

True love means understanding. One trust another more than him/herself and feels ready to satisfy every little need of the partner. Two people dont stop for a second looking into each others' eyes.

Its said that 2 person truly in love arent looking at each other but in one direction. And this is rather reasonable because they don’t say nothing “this is yours and this is mine” and share everything: friends, enemies, interests, problems and etc. One has his/her own identity but sees him/herself only as a part of the other. Still real love is not a relationship of property. If you really love someone you may say “I belong you” but always be ready to let go if it makes the person you love happy.

Jealousy stands out of the true love. How can one be jealous if there’s so much love and faithfulness? Real love doesn’t long for power, it doesn’t want to hurt, doesn’t want to punish for mistakes, it’s self-sacrificing and ready to forgive other and other again. But it’s wrong to think that true love is always a suffering, it only means that you take a person as he or she is and don’t expect the one you love to be perfect.

True love isn’t supposed to blow your mind, yet it doesn’t tend to get and to possess – it’s a and very special state of a soul.

But the question that true love is still has no definite answer. Do we truly love only once in our life? At what age are we supposed to meet our love? Does it last for a lifetime or just for a while? Probably everyone has his own answers to this questions. The truth is that no one should spend life chasing ideals or building relationships by some model of a true love. One will probably fail and miss the real thing beyond all this.

We should remember that very many things we need to supply our healthy and comfortable living but only the true feeling of love makes life really longer and happier.