A Theory Of Mine About JEALOUSY

What is it about jealousy that gets us all riled up??? at some level, we are annoyed at ourself when we realised that we are feeling jealous...no matter what the cause is. Someone once told me that when we are jealous at someone, it basically means that we want to be that person...in plain english, we are just angry at ourselves...weird??? but i have came to a realisation that every little bit of the statement is in fact, true...personally, i think that we can get jealous of someone else's achievement of happy moments, theres a catch...make sure that the feelings dont stay there for long...but, if you just stay put and to actually do nothing about it...i find that there is no need to feel jealous of someone else...the truth is, that person is in that place because of 2 reasons..first in by chance and the second is thru his/her own effort...so, if by chance...i'd say that this person cannot indulge his/herself in the comfort of luxury because i belief in the greatness of God...and this person should know that life doesn't always revolve around them and at some point, everyone has to experience the "road down the hill"...this person might as well study the road there...if you know what i mean...and for the second reason, which is thru effort...i feel that, we have no right to feel jealous for their achievements...they simply earned it!!! what makes you think that you have every right in the world to be in their place when you don't even shed a single drop of sweat and even worst you dont even put in an ounce of effort??? think about it the next time you find yourself wanting to kill someone because she has something that you don't... so, i would say that its ok to feel jealous of someone but keep in mind that if you hold on to the feelings for soooooo long, it's going to kill you inside and beyond some level, its going to spread externally....its simply a malignant infection people...cheers~